HARD TIMES NO MORE

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HARD TIMES NO MORE

TOP-RATED PODCAST FOR PEOPLE-PLEASERS STRUGGLING WITH ANXIETY, HEALTHY BOUNDARIES, AND RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS.

Allesanda Tolomei- Hard A.K.A. Mrs. Hard is your grounded, empathetic, compassionate wellness coach. She shares her experience to help you relieve anxiety while healing challenging personal and family relationship problems with tried-and-true methods to set healthy boundaries and detach with love.

If you are ready to experience fulfilling, meaningful connections without anxiety you are in the right place.

You can transform difficult relationships and find happiness without putting aside your needs or waiting for others to change. Let people-pleasing and codependence fall away and say goodbye to hard times for good.

Ep. 8- Healing From The Loneliness Epidemic
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Ep. 8- Healing From The Loneliness Epidemic

Feeling disconnected?

Is your anxiety holding you back from deeper, healthier relationships?

Welcome back to the Hard Times no More podcast. This episode is dedicated to transforming the sting of loneliness into the healing balm of connection.

As your host, Mrs Hard, I'll be sharing the tools and insights that guided me from the depths of despair to a life filled with meaningful relationships. We'll talk about the loneliness epidemic, its effects on your wellbeing and the importance of creating a more profound connection with yourself and those around you.

We won't stop there, we're diving into the healing power of relationships and exploring their role in managing depression, anxiety, and stress. From learning how to silence your inner critic and developing a healthier relationship with yourself to nurturing your relationship with a higher power, this episode is a beacon of hope for anyone feeling isolated, battling self-doubt, or seeking connection.

So, if you're ready to break free from loneliness and establish more meaningful relationships, this episode is for you!

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Ep. 7- The Synergy of Art, Healing, and Business with Lisa Fonville
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Ep. 7- The Synergy of Art, Healing, and Business with Lisa Fonville

Are you ready to chat about the dance between creativity, self-care, and business?

If the answer is YES!

Or if you are curious how these energies weave together to create a beautiful life, trust me, you'll want to stick around for this episode.

Join me and my guest, the incredibly talented artist and photographer Lisa Fonville owner of Hemlock House Photography, as we delve into a hard-hitting discussion on these topics and more.

Lisa is an accomplished photographer and she has done a lot of her own internal soul work. She offers an invaluable perspective on societal pressures, the power of rest and recharge, and loving your body as it is now (not when you lose 10 lbs.).

In our conversation, we take an honest look at the ego and its role in creativity. Lisa shares her experiences using her photography as a medium for healing, creating a therapeutic experience for her clients.

Whether you're a budding entrepreneur, a seasoned business owner, or working a 9-5, this episode is a treasure trove of insights waiting to be discovered.

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Ep. 6- Are you helping or enabling others in your relationships?
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Ep. 6- Are you helping or enabling others in your relationships?

Are you stuck in a cycle of enabling behavior in your relationships? We've all been there, starting with good intentions, then slowly descending into burdening obligations. Together, we'll navigate this challenging terrain, understanding the difference between helping and enabling- enabling being a trap we often fall into, unknowingly. We'll equip you with strategies to stay in the helping zone, fostering healthier, more harmonious relationships.

Next up, we'll break down the nitty-gritty of shifting from enabling to helping, especially in emotionally charged situations. It starts with recognizing your needs, setting boundaries, and having open conversations. It’s time to prioritize self-care and not carry the weight of the world.

Graduate to empowering self-growth, replacing that nagging negative chatter with affirmations of possibility.

By understanding enabling versus helping, you pave the way for a life filled with supportive relationships and joy.

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Ep. 5- Let That Sh*t Go: Heal Emotional Wounds And Transform Anger
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Ep. 5- Let That Sh*t Go: Heal Emotional Wounds And Transform Anger

Have you ever been trapped in a loop, replaying negative events or conversations in your mind, weeks or even years after they've happened?

This is a sign that you're harboring resentments- emotions weighing you down and hindering your progress in your relationships and life.

Join me, Mrs. Hard, as we journey together to let go of this debilitating feeling. Learn how to release pent-up anger and frustration toward others and clarify the path forward. As a bonus, I'll share some essential wellness coaching resources.

Get ready to take a step toward emotional freedom!

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Ep. 4- Relieve Anxiety In Your Relationships With This One Simple Tool
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Ep. 4- Relieve Anxiety In Your Relationships With This One Simple Tool

Are you feeling like you're stuck on a rocky boat, struggling to navigate the stormy seas of difficult relationships? You're not alone.

This episode is all about unearthing the strategies that will bring peace to your turbulent relationships. This week I'll be sharing my personal journey and the tools that transformed my challenges into treasures. You'll learn to be the captain of your relationships- steering away from challenging interactions.

Together, we'll uncover how to avoid the landmines of triggering topics and focus on the positives. You'll learn to detach from people who drain your energy yet remain present and compassionate. To wrap things up, I'll introduce you to The Healthy Relationship Toolkit, a treasure trove of tools to heal, rebuild, and foster harmonious relationships. So, if you're ready to wave goodbye to hard times and sail towards a life of healthy, meaningful connections, join me on this transformative journey.

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Ep. 3- Breaking Boundaries and Becoming a Soul Warrior with Angela DeSalvo
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Ep. 3- Breaking Boundaries and Becoming a Soul Warrior with Angela DeSalvo

This enlightening chat with Angela DeSalvo, a certified intuitive life and grief coach, medium, and author of Soul Warrior, will take you on a journey into the transformative world of soul work and enneagram, showing how you can break free from limiting beliefs and live your most authentic life.

Angela and I dive into the power of enneagram, a psychospiritual tool used to understand yourself and your relationships, and how group therapy can be a catalyst for change and growth. Through our own personal experiences, we share how facing our fears and embracing vulnerability can lead to profound shifts. This episode opens up the challenges we've faced and the lessons we've learned along the way, offering practical insights and wisdom for anyone seeking to better understand themselves and the world around them.

Don't miss this heartwarming and inspiring conversation with the incredible Angela DeSalvo!

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Ep. 2- FINDING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES AND HEALING
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Ep. 2- FINDING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES AND HEALING

Growing up with a parent who has a chronic illness can be an isolating and challenging experience, shaping your relationships and emotional wellbeing in unexpected ways.

Join me as I open up about my own journey and share how you can make positive changes in your life, all while exploring the five most important components of a healthy relationship so you can transform struggle into stability.

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Ep. 1- From Surviving to Thriving
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Ep. 1- From Surviving to Thriving

After facing a series of devastating life events, including my father's multiple sclerosis, my mother's terminal cancer, and my house burning down in a California wildfire, I discovered the tools and support needed to not only survive but to thrive. Welcome to Hard Times No More, where I share my personal journey and the process I used to transform my challenges, offering insights on how you can do the same in your own life.

In this heartfelt episode, I discuss my experiences with anxiety, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and the power of a supportive community. Learn how being present for my feelings and working through them allowed me to find happiness and peace of mind. If you're tired of struggling with boundaries, people-pleasing, and relationship problems, join me as we say goodbye to hard times for good and embrace a life full of healthy, meaningful relationships.

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